Plain and simple it is extremely selfish and inconsiderate for any Gender to Cheat. If a relationship is not working do the right thing and leave. More important communicate to your partner what you feel is not working.Be Honest. Rather than being "sneaky" and unscrupulous. Same goes for people who involve themselves with married men or women. It's "wanton" and risque behaviour to insert yourself into a relationship where you know the other person is married. Seems not many people know these days what INTEGRITY really means. I do believe though As they say...KARMA is a %@$#! When will people learn?
Thanks for taking the time to comment. I hear you. Leaving is always an option. However Hilary Clinton stayed and worked out the kinks in her marriage, John Edwards wife stayed and worked it out and many other prominent people like Kobe Bryant's wife stayed. It doesn't always have to be the end.
Yes...some women stay after a man cheats on them. Some woman can justify it with a "watered down"version of "forgiveness" but its a LONG process, I don't think things are ever the same after an affair. Remember we aren't just talking 1 woman with Tiger. We are talking...Multiple Women"..porn stars..and the high probability of "unprotected sex".
Come on!..as a woman..you have to have some "pride" and self-respect". Otherwise your just settling..anyone and I mean anyone who has ever had a partner cheat on them knows. You may be able to forgive to an extent..but can you really Forget???..I think not..the TRUST most times is irreperabley "broken"..As a woman think about this. Could you Honeslty make love to your man and not have thoughts about how he touched, Kissed the "other woman"..when he touches you?.
I totally agree that Cheating is selfish. Cheating with SEVERAL WOMEN is even worse. The damage to trust ..the damage to one's self-esteem. the Damage to the true Integrity of the relationship is phenomenal. Seriously!...we aren't just talking "kinks" in a marriage here, we are talking some major heartbrake and Morals here. The High profile women that you Beatrix mention stayed with thier cheating partners, Perhaps have "other motives" than just love why they stay. Ask any marriage counselor and they will tell you Infedility is at the top of the list why marriages, or relationships end. Sometimes the effort that is required to repairing such "BETRAYAL" outweighs the worth of holding onto the marriage.
There are some very interesting comments being made on this topic. As a mother, wife more important as a Woman. We have choices nowadays, many of us have worked have good work skills, that could be put to use should it be needed. We don't have to stay locked into a Tarnished relationship. Yes, there will be challenges in relationships but there is a BIG difference between everday challenges and outright, Deceit!! I don't understand why someone would want to endure the aftermath of an affair. In this case Multiple affairs. The only way I can explain it is, the relationship that I once shared with my partner would not feel as valuable to me, it would seem forever "tainted". Someone else mentioned that you may be able to forgive but, can you honestly forget?. I think the latter.
Well, it sure looks like Elin his wife has her head on straight. Reports are that she will divorce him after Christmas. I can't say that I blame her one bit. Enough of this garbage of "stand by your man". He sure wasn't standing by his woman was he?. In fact he was doing a "lot more" than 'standing' with those 11, or 12 women wasn't he?. Oh well Mr Woods, I guess you will live and learn eh?, but what a hefty price you will pay!
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Plain and simple it is extremely selfish and inconsiderate for any Gender to Cheat. If a relationship is not working do the right thing and leave. More important communicate to your partner what you feel is not working.Be Honest. Rather than being "sneaky" and unscrupulous.
Same goes for people who involve themselves with married men or women. It's "wanton" and risque behaviour to insert yourself into a relationship where you know the other person is married. Seems not many people know these days what INTEGRITY really means. I do believe though As they say...KARMA is a %@$#! When will people learn?
Thanks for taking the time to comment. I hear you. Leaving is always an option. However Hilary Clinton stayed and worked out the kinks in her marriage, John Edwards wife stayed and worked it out and many other prominent people like Kobe Bryant's wife stayed. It doesn't always have to be the end.
Yes...some women stay after a man cheats on them. Some woman can justify it with a "watered down"version of "forgiveness" but its a LONG process, I don't think things are ever the same after an affair. Remember we aren't just talking 1 woman with Tiger.
We are talking...Multiple Women"..porn stars..and the high probability of "unprotected sex".
Come on!..as a woman..you have to have some "pride" and self-respect".
Otherwise your just settling..anyone and I mean anyone who has ever had a partner cheat on them knows. You may be able to forgive to an extent..but can you really Forget???..I think not..the TRUST most times is irreperabley "broken"..As a woman think about this. Could you Honeslty make love to your man and not have thoughts about how he touched, Kissed the "other woman"..when he touches you?.
I totally agree that Cheating is selfish. Cheating with SEVERAL WOMEN is even worse.
The damage to trust ..the damage to one's self-esteem. the Damage to the true Integrity of the relationship is phenomenal.
Seriously!...we aren't just talking "kinks" in a marriage here, we are talking some major heartbrake and Morals here.
The High profile women that you Beatrix mention stayed with thier cheating partners, Perhaps have "other motives" than just love why they stay.
Ask any marriage counselor and they will tell you Infedility is at the top of the list why marriages, or relationships end.
Sometimes the effort that is required to repairing such "BETRAYAL" outweighs the worth of holding onto the marriage.
ooooooooooh weee...any man who would dog me like that...deserves to be kicked to the curb, right into the "dog-house"...
There are some very interesting comments being made on this topic.
As a mother, wife more important as a Woman. We have choices nowadays, many of us have worked have good work skills, that could be put to use should it be needed.
We don't have to stay locked into a Tarnished relationship.
Yes, there will be challenges in relationships but there is a BIG difference between everday challenges and outright, Deceit!!
I don't understand why someone would want to endure the aftermath of an affair. In this case Multiple affairs.
The only way I can explain it is, the relationship that I once shared with my partner would not feel as valuable to me, it would seem forever "tainted".
Someone else mentioned that you may be able to forgive but, can you honestly forget?. I think the latter.
Well, it sure looks like Elin his wife has her head on straight. Reports are that she will divorce him after Christmas. I can't say that I blame her one bit. Enough of this garbage of "stand by your man". He sure wasn't standing by his woman was he?. In fact he was doing a "lot more" than 'standing' with those 11, or 12 women wasn't he?. Oh well Mr Woods, I guess you will live and learn eh?, but what a hefty price you will pay!
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